The dreams we nurture and cherish are what we end up becoming. It is a saying that we must have heard million times in the chronicling of our life. However, whatever we set out to think is most probably construed as insatiable that we end up not even getting close to that. To get what we pursue with all the satisfaction of our mind, we have to be too determined and fixed in our wits. The obsession may be perceived as abrasive sometimes, but it gets you close to what you aspire. The best example of this statement who also showed this by sampling her own life to this axiom is none other than the beauty blogger Alva Ray.
She went on to unshackle herself from all the conventions and stereotypes to become the riveting beauty sensation who has taken the world by storm. She was a beauty blogger who made headway into the world of fashion by walking her dreams to become a trending woman. She has turned out to be a person leading by example, reflecting her changes to motivate us on all possible fronts.
As a resident of Southern California from a low rung background, she underwent a lot of trials and tribulations in her life. Her daily financial expectation took a lot of laboring from her in the form of working day in and day out as a contact lens seller. She was also a social media activist who constantly blogged about beauty regimes and fashion trends. Finally, a breakthrough happened when she transformed her overweight body into a fashion figure fighting through all hindrances and making it sensational through this process.
She eventually became the center of attraction of all beauty enthusiasts and fashionistas making headlines within the beauty industry by capturing the attention of people across the world. From someone so reclusive to even getting photographed, she has been posing and flaunting images across the digital world unabashedly as a frontline model in command.
She has easily become the prototype of a perfect woman apart from imbuing all of them to be their personal best and to make it happen with all verve. Her idiom and principle to have notched up such a feat are to just follow your dreams until it fructifies in all edges.
Her motives and reflections:
Becoming fat to fit is a process that requires undue efforts from a person. Her chiseled and ecstatic features are testimony to how she has transformed herself from being an overweight and bodily figure. She has shed almost about 30 lbs. in the span of a year showing people the marvels of pursuing a dream and making it true.
Her own peroration for the above miraculous conversion is about making peace with the way you are and accepting all of it. That is when the momentum to change clicks in when you will also have the apt courage and confidence to do it.
She has gone to become the benchmark for beautification while also claiming that this was her intention in the first place. She aspired to be famous for fitness by creating a buzz on all social media platforms and that is exactly where she has reached. She also gives the able guidance to the right pavement of perfect fitness to all the women who harbor doubts about their bodies.
Her ideas about the pathway of success:
We all are habituated to a notion about being judged by others. We always heed what others think of us and change us in all fashions to appease the onlookers. Alva Jay, as a strategist and winner herself, says you should be more concerned about yourself than tendering to others’ wishes. Being a beauty influencer and rising above the bar, her ideology to become successful is by self-improvement and thinking of your own progress.
According to Alva Jay, Human beings are multi-dimensional and uncanny in nature. What excites them more is the life of others than their own self. They tend to lend ears to other issues or comment on others’ life without any basing or compunction. Even if they pose to help, it could be in the most perfunctory way and not to their real intentions of improving you. All we have to do is have a leap of faith in ourselves and bend our ways to improve ourselves on all fronts. We have to be able to locate happiness in our conscience and not depend on anybody to lend that satisfaction.
To be able to reach a pedestal, we need to fix our targets and work our way up until we reach there without relenting at any adverse scenarios. Developing a habit and sticking to it as a regime in the most organized way can fetch results that are miraculous to our surprise.
She also emphasizes the importance of bearing the mantle of your own thoughts and dreams without burdening it on anybody else. You have to be the cog of your own dreams and bear the responsibility on your shoulders with all vigor and courage. If you feel low, the best you can do is own that feeling. That way, you would not end up troubling yourself. She stresses the point that all of us should only actively do things that make us happy and keep us at peace.
Sometimes the import of your skillset would not be understood by your kith and kins. That is the time you have to up your spirits and value them to the best of your worth for all the things you have achieved. When you are at the crossroads of making a major decision in your life, you have to choose your instincts over anything else, cos that will drive you to the right path than any big lease of support.
Her important quote as a summation mentions that we are bogged down by work life and commitment to the people around us. This invariably discards our self-importance and makes us more immersed in our duties than ourselves. It would also come across as selfish if we were to abandon our convictions to improve ourselves. However, we need to do that with all our mettle and gumption for that is what will land us in the terrain of our dreams.
Alva Jay is a person who has paved the way to follow our dreams with conviction to turn out to be the person we want to be. It might look easy on the words but does take a lot of perseverance to get there. She is a brilliant example to display the reality of the above concept by walking her dreams and reaching the pulpit. Let us subserve our wits to strengthen ourselves and pursue our respective dreams in all their glory.